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Since childhood, we are conditioned to follow a crowd. Go where the crowd goes, don't go where it doesn't. Don't stand out. Don't think differently. Don't do what the crowd doesn't want you to do. Don't be who the crowd doesn't want you to be. Don't break the rules.
Don't be fresh. Don't speak out of turn. Don't be different.
In adulthood, matters are different. Once you've completed, or withdrawn from, an undergraduate curriculum, you no longer have to answer to anyone. It's your life now, and its direction is yours and yours alone.
However, some people would rather you not be that way. Sometimes there are unwritten rules that people apply to themselves, and then mistakenly apply to you. There are standards that people impose on themselves, with the assumption that everyone else should follow them too.
With all due respect, they're wrong.
When we're younger, there are reasons to follow rules that are imposed on us, even if we do not agree with them. Reason being, we're young. We don't know everything. We're underdeveloped. We need to grow, we need to learn, and we need to mature. Until we're able to do them, the rules stay.
But once we have grown, learned, and matured, those same rules can only hold us back. They infantilize us when we need to be adults. They cause us to stagnate and plateau. They restrict us to the painless demise of a comfort zone. They erode away at our individual identity until we're just faceless drones like everyone else.
Beta males sometimes live lives that are based on following the rules to the letter of the law. While this usually makes for a childhood and adolescence that is risk-free, commendable, and respected by elder generations, it can also sow the seeds for an adulthood that is uneventful, bland, dull, predictable, and tragically anonymous. It sets you up for a life experience that merely involves changing one set of rules for another, and never actually making your own rules.
When you become Bold and Bulletproof, that won't happen. When you embrace your own strength and arm yourself against criticism, rejection, and disrespect, you can, and will, make your own rules. When you live by the Four Pillars, those rules won't keep you pinned down or rendered useless.
DISCLAIMER: This does NOT mean you break the law, or make a spectacle of yourself at a government office or courthouse. It DOES mean that you don't pretend that someone else's rules were delivered from Mount Sinai to your doorstep on stone tablets, and that you don't spend your whole life limited from reaching your full potential because of rules that were once imposed on you in childhood. We're not robots. We're not servants. We're not meant to be sidekicks, wing men, or nobodies.
To be a leader, one must first be a follower. But we eventually must stop being followers.
I EXIST. I MATTER. I BELONG. I DESERVE.
I AM BOLD. I AM BULLETPROOF. I AM ME.