Good Evening All -- while there's always something to be said for Thanksgiving, I've noticed that the Black Friday post from last year still gets tons of hits every week around the world. Why mess with a good thing? I just reposted it.
This time of year, when family is brought back into focus, we're reminded of how important it really is to have people in your life who are loyal, who care, and are genuinely interested in your well-being. There's something about being around an extended table full of food, which may or may not include a "kiddie table," with people you cherish and respect that can make you feel like you're part of something a little bigger than yourself. And whether we celebrate Chanukah or Christmas, that closeness is likely to be repeated in December as well.
The question is, whether certain people really need that closeness, and if so, if it's needed during the rest of the year. There are many of us who are content to simply live their own lives by their own terms, without any outside influence whatsoever. They are self-made, self-driven, fiercely independent, and firmly believe that they don't need to be involved with anyone, family or otherwise, to have a fulfilling life. Chances are, they're right. There are a lot more people who are unmarried and childless these days than in prior years, and lots of people are simply content to be "on their own." There are numerous reasons for this phenomenon that don't require review, suffice it to say that it's just personal preference.
However, no man or woman is an island. As the recent hurricane has taught us, we all need somebody. Somebody who can temporarily provide us with food, shelter, and electricity when a natural disaster takes them away from us. Somebody who can console and comfort us if we've suffered a loss or a tragedy. Somebody who can just be there and make us feel like everything is OK, and possibly make us laugh or crack a smile.
Those of you who know me know that I tend to be independent and individualistic. I've always tried to be one of those people who achieved whatever I've gotten on my own, and not through the aid of others. But the fact of the matter is, it's not possible to be a loner in every area of one's life. Without family, be it by blood relatives, a spouse, friends, or a significant other, we simply can't survive.
As I've mentioned before, my parents have been very supportive and helpful to me this year, and I haven't forgotten it. I was privileged to be able to spend a week with them this year, and to break bread with a few other families at the table. They reminded me that, even if I am independent, and not a follow-the-crowd type, family must remain my home base and support system throughout my life. And that goes for everyone else, too.
So, even after we've headed back to work, we'll be returning home for the holidays once more in a few weeks. Let's be thankful for the family we all have, be they blood relatives, spouses, or just really close friends. Even if we're all rugged individuals, and are complete by ourselves, we still need them far more than we might admit.
That's my piece for this evening -- have a good night and rest easy!