Good Evening, Peeps!
Sorry I was not around last week, but that only entitles my adoring public to a double portion for the Big '13! And that ain't bad!
I already blogged about new beginnings, that's a subject we're all familiar with. It's for sure that I've got some new beginnings going on for the Big '13. But before that becomes official, it's also a good idea to trash all the not-so-happy material we collected in the past 12 months.
Yesterday in NYC, some organization put together a "Good Riddance Day." Everything that people wanted to be rid of at the end of the year was shredded, compacted, or otherwise destroyed, along with notes of things that we all aspire to be rid of!
I know I've got a boatload of things I'm anxious to be rid of that accumulated in 2012, and I recommend all y'all do likewise. So before I commence the purge cycle, let's review:
(1) Memories of people who did not make my life happier.
(2) Thoughts of people who seem to irritate me, and the reactionary thoughts that somehow keep the irritation on the repeat cycle long after the irritating source has been removed. Of course, a long term removal of said irritants would be ideal, but you and I usually don't have a secret "eject" button to make that happen (with a few exceptions).
(3) Any records that are older than 5 years -- that's why we have shredders!
(4) Anything expired -- this may require the intervention of the Food Police, the Coupon Police, or the Out Of Date Magazine Task Force, but someone's gotta handle that job for real!!!!!!!!!!
(5) Anything that takes up space for no good reason.
(6) Any relationship that is not based on respect, trust, and understanding, and is instead based on guilt, fear, or obligation.
(7) Stress triggered by something I have no control over and cannot fix at that moment.
(8) Resentment of anyone who offers constructive and respectful criticism, doubt and fear engendered by negative criticism, and the understanding to differentiate between them both.
(9) Grudges against anyone who wronged me this year.
(10) Desperate need for approval by others, even when their approval is completely unnecessary.
(11) Stagnant annoyance and irritation at people who act like jerks and a$$#oles. As I've said before, merely hating them doesn't bring down G-D's wrath on them, they'll eventually bring that on themselves.
Of course, this list is not exhaustive. In fact, I encourage all my Pillarites to comment and add their own s--t list! Even for me, writing it down is the first and most decisive step towards getting rid of all this clutter and waste product that can only hold us back.
And of course, the two biggest things I'd like to close out, trash, and forget about for 2012:
(A) Hurricane Sandy -- a natural disaster that left people homeless and unsheltered, ripped my beloved Long Island apart, and created yet another reason for people to gripe, complain, moan, and whine about how ineffectual government agencies are and always will be.
(B) The Cancellation of the NYC Marathon -- after all the self-righteous posturing and soap-box commentary about how runners were selfish for not wanting the marathon to be canceled, and the shameless political pressure that caused it to be canceled, I'd like to put that nonsense far behind me. And with the NYC RUNS marathon in February, and a visit to the upstate Frontier this May, that's exactly what your friendly neighborhood blogger intends to do.
So that's it. Take a hike, 2012! Get lost, disappear, vamanos! And take that stupid Mayan BS with you too!
Now to make the Big '13 The Year of the Pillars!
I EXIST. I MATTER. I BELONG. I DESERVE.